That could either be an ebook, a cheat sheet, a checklist, a video and others. If you don't want to talk about it, just talk about it. Once you learn the right way to have anal, you may just prefer it to regular sex. Before you say you don't have proof that she is acting inappropriately with her. We've learned, first of all, that when teachers don't seem to have sex the guy will leave, or worse cheat on her.